As women have taken a stronger role in the dating scene and are learning to embrace our own sexuality, have the standards for men’s behavior declined? Men now wait for women to make the first move, kiss without being invited and before dating, expect sex early (okcupid most men say after the 3rd date) , have stopped coming up with creative romantic dates, have stopped paying for dinner… What ever happened to courting a woman?
Although I personally enjoy playing a stronger role in society and in love
affairs there is still a (large) part of me that wishes men stayed true to some
of the older standards. I feel as though
when we jump to kissing and sex so quickly it takes away some of the heated
anticipation, the mystery, the butterflies. I want butterflies! I want to be
nervous and excited the first time I undress you… and why is it that we jump
straight from kissing to sex? What happened to just getting to see someone topless,
and then getting to see someone naked, and then getting to have sex with them…
I like the drawn out…what’s going to happen next. Instead it just happens all
at once shirt pants underwear gone sex done and you’re out the door… What
happened to learning someone else’s body, finding the freckles, scars, dimples and
exploring parts of him one at a time.
I want to go back in time when the kiss was something
special, something you gave someone you cared for, not some stranger you just
met at the bar.
No comments:
Post a Comment