So to help other women see the warning signs I have written this list:
You know you are an unpaid prostitute when:
1. He doesn't really care if you orgasm
2. He doesn't care what you're wearing as long as it comes off
3. He no longer attempts to get you in the mood and instead simply states "It's go time!" or "Okay, I'm ready."
4. You always have sex at his place but you never have sex in his bed
5. He doesn't have much concern for your schedule or your sex drive
6. When planning on a next meeting he only considers his schedule and seals the time with "so see you next Tuesday for sex, though I won't be available till 6, so show up then." and then when 5:45 rolls around he says he's busy and could you push it to 7
7. He doesn't take you out in public unless you ask and make all the arrangements
8. You're responsible for sex accoutrements (lube, condoms, lingerie)
9. He's embarrassed to tell his friends about your "relationship"
10. You no longer feel like a friend and that there is just benefits, except he's the one getting all the benefits
I hope this helps those of you out there who thought a friends with benefits would be fun and easy. Watch out before you now it... it's work but with out pay or benefits!
